Fidele: Frankly Speaking

Fidele: Frankly Speaking:   YOU OR YOUR DEAD FRIEND ?  People in this part of the world are quick to judge the dead rather than focusing On their own short comings ...

KNOW YOUR DRIVE

WHATS YOUR PASSION
I have an idle friend whose dream is to make it big someday. yet! he has no job, no standard qualification and no experience . His dream is to be a successful singer, living large and having all that his heart desires. 

I asked how that will be possible and he said to me "i have faith " 
Then i began to wonder how faith works!
Does faith drive someone who doesn't have what it takes to get what he want?
He couldn't even sing melodiously, his voice, hmmmmm very frogy and yet he's talking about making it big.

So i though about giving  him a humble advice but before then i asked  What was his passion?

He was fast to answer "music" then i told him

First of all making "music" means you can make melody with your voice. Being a good singer is not what you inherit or what you fake , its what is in you! . However, a little of it can be developed into something so big and meaningful 

I advised him to get a formal knowledge on music, get  to know how to play one or two of the musical instruments, work on his voice, get a formal education and move on with his life while he await his passion unfold along the line.
Many youth in my country see music as a fast way of making money .They have short changed its original ideas and benefit for their fast money making model. they sing what trend , not what make sense to them
they use foul languages to attract more audience, this has prompted immorality to be inculcated into our younger generation.

How can you do something because you want a return by all mean and yet you call it your passion?

 No its not a passion its a means!

If music had been a means of survival we won't have met its originality and uniqueness.This is now being bastardizes for selfish reason.
my question is if this "means" stops what will be left in you?
what impact would you have made?
what would people have to say about you
what quality of baton have you passed on
wont you rather stop looking for a means and focus on what drives you?
No matter what happens to you in life, you will never get tired of doing what drives you!
You don't have to be another beyonce, or another puff daddy, you don't have to be another tu face or hussien bolt.
 if your passion is to run, break bolts record 
if your passion is to dance, do better than MJ 
Be the best THAT the best ever wished to be.

Why not be yourself! why not fill in a new gap ! why not make a new name
Would you rather be listed below someone who has made it on something ?
Why not be the first on the list
Think it over and over
Your passion leads you to your dreams
Follow it!!!

Fidele: Frankly Speaking

Fidele: Frankly Speaking:   YOU OR YOUR DEAD FRIEND ?  People in this part of the world are quick to judge the dead rather than focusing On their own short comings ...

HAVE YOU?

THE COAST WILL BE CLEAR AGAIN

Yea you have been through a lot all the while , and it looks like no help is coming your way
you've given life all the best but life keep throwing dirt at you
right now you thinking of giving up
you!!! yes you.............
i mean you reading this!!!

You know it hurt sometimes when you need help and you can't get
it seem like GOD has abandoned you
well my friend, do not worry

Have you heard there are 365 "Do not fear" in the bible?
That means God has a promise for each day in the year
 if he told you yesterday not to worry, yesterday may be gone
But you have a new promise at the dawn of a each day
Just hold on!!!
Help is on the way........

Don't think negative
stay strong
Though its not easy
but giving up is for those who has come to term with failure
have you ?
definitely not!!!!
 this surge will soon be gone and the coast will be clear again
you sea will come back blue after the turbulence

keep quiet in this storm and listen to that small still voice saying
DON'T GIVE IN

Frankly Speaking

 YOU OR YOUR DEAD FRIEND ?

 People in this part of the world are quick to judge the dead rather than focusing On their own short comings and waiting patiently with fear and trembling for that day when death will also beckon on them.

I have seen,heard and witnessed series of critics as soon as word spread about someone's demise. But really the question is ''who are to judge me when you  neither see me act nor corrected me''.

 The case is usually worse if the deceased in question is well known. You hear stories of how they've cheated,abused,robbed or act unholy; meanwhile all the times the person was alive you laugh and act like nothing happened.

Well, i have good news for you; you are not dead yet , maybe GOD is merciful enough,saving you the wrath and giving you a chance to change. 

The bad news is; you have succeeded in grading a destructive road by keeping quite, this has however caused someone to be doomed.  

Really ignorance is not an excuse before God but i have no doubt that your little word of counsel could have opened the eyes of the victim to see what's wrong.Instead you kept quite waiting for the individual to die while you step-on to the lime light dishing out someone else's life and mistake.

The fact is if your friend failed while alive you are nothing but a failure too. Because i believe you are being placed in someone's life as a help meet. To help the person reach HIS OR HER GOAL . if your friend die goalless it means you are worthless!!!

 More individuals of your type will only but mislead our generation. it shows you have no potential, no drive , no aim, no interest .

So tell me my friend who is worse? you or your dead friend?

Remember someday , you'll be just a memory too for some people. do your best to be the best you can and don't be the first to throw stone at the dead. help your friends to improve. keep each others secret save,be a scarce commodity not a plaque to be avoided.    

Be as best as your Best!!!

WALK WHILE ITS DAY COS YOU CAN !!!

Life could mean different thing to different people depending on how you are brought up and the kind of personality you have but one thing is certain you have the power to CHOOSE  

YOU have the right to choose your friends,but you can't choose you family

YOU have  the right to choose your religion but you can't choose for GOD 

YOU  have the right to money only when you choose not to be  idle 

YOU have the right to choose a wife but you don't have the right to choose your child 

YOU have the right to choose where you lay your head but you cant decide its  weather condition

YOU have the right to live but you have no right to take your life.

YOU can decide how long you want to  live but you can't determine when you will die 

Except you put things in place while you live,you may end up not fulfilling your destiny and self driven desires.

3 things happen to us all in life

 *change

 *chances and 

 *choice but you have the right to determine how these things affect you

The things that you have the right to choose and control  are prominent and of great values than the things you can't change, so stop giving EXCUSES!!!

 In case you don't know the grave yard is said to be the most resourceful place on earth because that's where the unfulfilled yet talented individuals are resident.who at one point or the other fail to adapt change,take chances and make better choices.So would you rather be among those who will  die unfulfilled?

Don't blame the devil for you failure because has been defeated and don't blame GOD either because he gave you authority and dominion. 

 Blame yourself for not trying. failing.Feel free to take up challenges,do the risk, after-all success is not for the fragile but for the STRONG.

TO those who can stand the test of time and believe they CAN because GOD has given them the power to. 

Stop living in regret over things you can't change rather maximize your potential on things you can control to get quality yields that will move your life forward. DON'T PROCRASTINATE!!! WHO TOLD YOU YOU WILL SEE TOMORROW?

DON'T GIVE UP FRIEND!!!! KEEP TRYING AND STAY FOCUSED.YOU WILL HAVE ENOUGH SLEEP WHEN YOU DIE.

I am ME, I am HIM!

Hmm!
I am HIM, I am ME
How ironic
How is this possible, How can this be?

Simplying saying i can do things in HIS ways and i can be myself
Still confused?
I am a replica of HIM, I am a replica of my self.

Well!
Let just go straight to the point
I am HIM and Me cos HE created me in his own image and gave me the free will of my own to do anything
but keeps a voice deep down there to instruct me to make sure am on the right track, for me not to go astray
all boils down to the fact someway somehow am entangled to him, am i right?
No! am subjected to him, either knowingly or not.

But i wonder, How come i still live in fear and sin when the VOICE is there, ohoooo! you say!
there is but "one" that causes that. hes building a kingdom for himself, a kingdom of Gnashing teeth, fear, cries, funny! he crept into the heart of man stylishly and blindfolds with a temporal happiness that makes you forget the reality " Service to God, WORSHIP".
You forget the place that is full of Riches and Happiness where you are entitled to be, note "PERMANENT" so long you abide.
I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me. "Not that easy in the physical except spiritual remember friend.

........and the book of life was brought ....
and  it came to pass that whomsoever name was not found shall be cast ............
 ooooohps! that scares.


The whole essence of man is to serve him, in all ways. Shikena.

Just do the right thing.
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