People in this part of the world are quick to judge the dead rather than focusing On their own short comings and waiting patiently with fear and trembling for that day when death will also beckon on them.
I have seen,heard and witnessed series of critics as soon as words spread about someone's demise. But really the question is ''who are you to judge me ,when you neither see me act nor corrected me''.
The case is usually worse if the deceased in question is well known. You hear stories of how they've cheated,abused,robbed or act unholy; meanwhile all the times the person was alive you laugh and act like nothing happened.
Well, i have good news for you; you are not dead yet , maybe GOD is merciful enough,saving you the wrath and giving you a chance to change. The bad news is; you have succeeded in grading a destructive road by keeping quite, this has however caused someone to be doomed.
Really ignorance is not an excuse before God but i have no doubt that your little word of counsel could have opened the eyes of the victim to see what's wrong.Instead you kept quite waiting for the individual to die while you step-on to the lime light dishing out someone else's life and mistake.
The fact is if your friend failed while alive you are nothing but a failure too. Because i believe you are being placed in someone's life as a help meet. To help the person reach HIS OR HER GOAL . if your friend die goalless it means you are worthless!!!
Such individual will only but mislead our generation. it shows you have no potential, no drive , no aim, no interest .... thus all you care about is yourself only.
Like chaz B would say In his time(may GOD Rest his soul)_ ''if one could reach one; and one could teach one, together we can make a better world.
End of discussion is this; Let's be true to our self and our neighbours, correct when necessary, chastise, If need be, commend good effort, don't stay In the dark while shooting deadly arrow against someone you could have helped to be better.
Let's stay responsible that's a duty for all human regardless.
HELP The living get better....
1 comment:
Well said! This also holds true not just of the dead but even for the living. Do not wait until another 'falls' or 'fail' before correcting them.
There's no use gloating over the fallen!
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